Parenting

The Ultimate Parenting Class is a pre-requisite for Changing Lives for G∞d, since it creates a self-awareness in parents and prevention in the lives of their children.



Instead of offering therapy for children, we guide you in healing your own child, after you have learned what not to do. You can always return to our Discussion Group for a small donation, which meets twice monthly for questions and guidance.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (DV) / Conflict resolution

Dr. Faye is a student of the origins of violent behavior. She learned most of what she knows looking at the two ends of the spectrum, from our greatest leaders in humanity to the most terrifying people of all. She believes that people who become dangerous to another person, were once on the other end of the experience.

They were terrified victims as babies and small children.

You need to know that you were not born with any propensity for violence. It will take four ingredients to heal: humility, courage, self-reflection, and a love of the truth. Which one are you best at? Which of those four traits have you yet to develop? At any rate, you will learn that you came by your rage honestly. Your rage is not inborn, it was learned or unconsciously imprinted from the ways your parents treated you, your siblings, one another, and the people outside your home.

What goes in must come out, and what doesn’t go in can’t come out. In studying individual childhoods of people who turn out at either end of humanity, Dr. Faye has learned most of what she knows about behavior, how it is created, and what it takes to heal it. There is no class at PaRC where this knowledge is more intensely employed than in the DV class (RSW), where there are no killers, but there are some very angry people who have had too much of a bad thing. Oh, by the way, the angrier one is, the more likely one will protect their parents and deny that their parents had anything to do with their anger. This is because, underneath one's seething rage is a parental mandate not to express one's thoughts and feelings, often managed with a lot of "forgetting". This theory doesn’t ask you to blame your parents to heal. Your parents were children too, and you can break the cycle of transmitting behaviors from one generation to the next, if you can tell the truth of what you experienced. They don't have to know.

There are many courses available where you just have to show up. This class is not about showing up so you can walk away with evidence that you completed the court order. This class is about showing up to heal. If you really want to take advantage of your court order and see it as your chance to grow, then Changing Lives for G∞d is your best choice.

Over the court-ordered time period, which for DV is usually 6-24 months, we will cover parenting skills, relationship skills, and therapy. You will be welcomed and enjoyed.

All three programs will be back-to-back covering all the bases.

    If you choose Changing Lives for G∞d, you will be registered when you fill out and return your intake, send us a copy of your court order (by fax or email), and pay your fee at PaRC. Please don’t send us a photo of the court order. You can get your court order scanned or faxed to 661-558-4162 at most office supply stores.

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