From birth, mirror neurons fashion "normal" according to how we are treated. Babies begin imprinting the way they are treated from birth. This is why attachment is critically important to the foundation of personality.

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Behavioral patterns are imprinted cycles in the motor cortex of the brain utilizing mirrior neurons. From birth children imprint the way we treat them and how they see us as normal. We then treat our children in a variation of how we were treated, unless we choose to modify our legacy.

The most important and influential relationship in life is the one of parent and child.

After that, how we relate to our parenting partner, whether we stay with them or not still matters profoundly for the children.

How we have been raised, will direct how we are inclined to act throughout our lives.

The good news is, it is NEVER too late to change yourself, your family, or your child. The degree of healing results from the degree of humility and commitment a person has for change.

Behold! This is the miracle of your design. This is your visit to Planet Earth. This is your adventure through involvement, self-observation and self-correction. Don't waste life comparing yourself to others. Compare yourself to your past, and keep growing.